Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Sharing Your Breast Adventure With Your Husband

When I decided to have fuller breasts - to make them larger, I realized I had another decision to make: Should I tell my husband what I was going to do?

First, to tell him that I was going to naturally enlarge my breasts, would that be like an admission that there was something wrong with me? But I love my body, it is just that I wanted more... just as an athlete would strive to be better.

And then there was the chance that if I changed, he would not love me anymore. That does sound crazy, everyone knows that men love bigger breasts. But what about all the times he told me how much he loves how I look?

But then, my body is my own to do with it what I want. We have all struggled with women being a possession. And there are too many places on this planet where women are still thought of and treated as property. My body is mine and if I want to have bigger breasts than my husband will have to accept that...

I had many different thoughts before I told him what I was going to do. Being married and being in love means sharing for me. Even such private things as changing my breasts.

He was very supportive, but stayed out of my way. This was my project and whatever happened he would love the results.

And he does love my now C cup size breasts. More than the A Cups? I have decided not to go there...

Have you shared your thoughts about breast enlargement with your husband or significant other? Post your comments here.

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